VA Border Kids

Because packing light keeps the chaos lighter, too

Whether you’re heading out for a day trip or an overnight family adventure, packing for toddlers can feel like prepping for a two-week expedition. Between diapers, snacks, toys, and “just in case” extras, it’s easy to go overboard. But after dozens of trips (and a few packing fails), I’ve learned what really matters—and what you can leave at home guilt-free.

Here’s my no-fluff, real-mom-approved packing list for your next VA/NC toddler adventure.

✅ Must-Haves: The Real Essentials

These are the things you’ll actually reach for every time:

2 extra outfits per toddler (accidents, spills, and mystery dirt) Swim diapers + regular diapers / wipes Reusable water bottles Sunscreen, hats, and sunglasses Snacks: Think non-melty, non-sticky, and toddler-approved Blanket or travel nap mat Lightweight stroller or baby carrier Small toy kit: Bubbles, stickers, crayons, or fidget toys Portable fan (summer heat = toddler rage) First aid basics (band-aids, Tylenol, bug spray)

Mom Tip: Use gallon zip-top bags to pre-pack outfits by day. Toddlers love picking their “bag,” and it keeps your diaper bag from turning into a black hole.

❌ What You Don’t Need to Stress About

Let’s be honest—these things usually take up space and never get used:

Fancy outfits (stick to comfy, washable clothes) Full-size toys or 10 stuffed animals More than 2 pairs of shoes Giant medicine kits (just bring basics) Separate bags for every kid High chair covers or shopping cart liners (you’ll forget them anyway)

🧳 Pack Smart = Stress Less

You don’t need Pinterest-perfect packing to make memories. A few well-planned basics can give you peace of mind—and keep your arms (and sanity) free for more important things. Like chasing a toddler with a fistful of sand.

What are your must-haves or packing regrets? Share in the comments or tag @vaborderkids!